3 Keys to Manifesting Your Desire

Does this sound like you? When you first started manifesting you didn’t fully understand it or you didn’t know what you did to create your desired outcome. You manifested haphazardly or part time and couldn’t figure out how to manifest all the time. 

Manifesting is intentionally creating or attracting what you want in your life.

If you think about your life you’ve already manifested everything you could have ever wanted. The good things, the challenges and everything in between. You have either consciously or unconsciously manifested without meaning to.

You can manifest anything from a feather to a house to a new job. Manifesting is a power tool available to everyone and all you have to do is learn how to use it.

What Are The 3 Keys To Manifesting?

Once you understand that your thoughts and feelings create your outer world, you can begin to deliberately create the life you want.

The first key:  have clear intent, a clear goal. The challenge is being clear about what you want. Sometimes it’s so hard to make a decision. 

Lets say you want to manifest money. Money loves clarity. The more clear you are about your goals the faster the money will flow to you. The first thing you‘ll want to do is pick a dollar amount and a date you want it by. For example it’s the first of the month and you want to make $5,000 by the 30th of the month. Great now you have a clear intent. 

One practice you can do for money clarity is to journal about your dream day. Here are some questions you can journal on…

  • What are you doing
  • who are you with
  • what you are eating
  • what are you surrounded by
  • How do you feel throughout the day?

The second key: you’ll want to do is spend some time visualizing yourself with your desire and put feeling in it. Visualize it as if you already have it. Create a feeling of having it by aligning your thoughts, words, and actions to your desired outcome.

The more you can visualize your dream life becoming a reality, the clear you will be about what you want and don’t want in your life.

Set time aside each day to tap into the emotion of having the money you want. As you feel the energy run through your body, you become a magnet to the right situations, opportunities and the right people.

The last part of manifesting and this is important because most people leave this part out when they manifest. In order to get what you want you MUST take action.

Part of manifesting is creating the belief that you have the ability to set a goal and achieve it. After you set the goal, then you create a plan to get there. Be patience. Let it all unfold however it unfolds and know it is all coming to you!

What stops or blocks you is when you start focusing on how you don’t have the thing you want yet. If you focus on that, you guessed it—you are magnetizing a reality where you don’t have it, because that is where your focus is. The goal is to focus on how you feel when you receive your desired outcome.

Now if you are having a really hard time with your mind chatter or limiting beliefs. I would love to help you unlock your prosperity from the inside.

I’m known as the abundant mindset expert who intuitively clears prosperity blocks. My specialty is shifting the inner game and releasing stuck emotions so that you can attract more money, success, prosperity and happiness in your life.

Just schedule a time to chat at no obligation. I’d love to see if I could help you. https://calendly.com/jolen-1/45min Click the link to schedule a time to chat. I would love to hear from you.  

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3 Steps for Showing Up Different

Watching, Listening and Contemplating

In this time of change how do you want to show up when it’s all over? Today’s thoughts lead to your emotions and your emotions lead to your behavior, which turn out to be your character. Do you like how you are showing up?  

Yes, these are challenging times that we are all going through right now. Did you know today’s thoughts are creating tomorrow’s emotions and behaviors, which are creating tomorrow’s new habits and character? We can’t show up in the old same way. It wasn’t working.

The last few days I’ve been watching, listening and contemplating. I’ve been watching my behavior and actions. I’ve noticed that there are some great things I really like and somethings that need to be changed.  I’ve been listening to my intuition and I’ve been contemplating my thoughts.

Watching:

Have you watched your behavior and actions during the last few weeks? If you haven’t I invite you to start today. Are there things you are doing that no longer serve you? Are you sitting around too much watching tv, eating too much sugar, not exercising or being a slob?   

Were you working so much that you never really knew your loved ones and now your home all day you are really getting to know them better? Are you enjoying bike rides, family game night or putting a puzzle together.

What behaviors do you like and what behavior would you like to change? Did you know the behaviors we see in others that we don’t like are what we don’t like about ourselves. They are just a mirror mirroring back to us our behaviors. If you change the ones you don’t like, then the behavior in the other person will change.

 

Listening:

Do you take time out of your day to quietly sit and listen? You might meditate or do yoga. You might journal or sit in the garden and watch the birds. It’s important to connect in every day and listen to the wisdom of your intuition.

Contemplating:

Have you ever paid attention to your thoughts? If not I invite you to observe your thoughts for a day and contemplate them. Just notice if you have thoughts that support you or do you beat yourself up?  Is there one area that you continually think about? It could be about your health or weight, your finances or your relationship.   

Why is this important?

If you stay in fear, grief and confusion you are teaching yourself a new behavior which will turn into your new character. We’ve been in this for about a month now. It takes a month to form a new habit. How are you showing up now compared to when all of this started? The way you are behaving right now, is this how you want your future to be?  I invite you to watch your behavior and change the ones you don’t like. Take time each day to pause and listen. Connect to nature and see the beauty of a tree that stands so tall and strong. Observe your thoughts and contemplate the ones that serve you and let go of the ones that don’t. Though this you can show up with a new character. One that is supportive, calm and happy. The choice is yours.

 

Are You Happy with Your Life? If Not Here’s A Way to Shift it

A belief is the acceptance by the mind that something is true or real. Often it is created by an emotional or traumatic event. When we have a core belief we have a sense of certainty around it, because we know it’s true for us.

Science has been focusing on the central nervous system, the immune system and their interrelationship. Science once thought that they brain sent information one way to respond to the body’s problem. Now it is clear that the central nervous system controls the body’s defense mechanisms.  Knowing this, we can assume that every thought, emotion, ideal or belief has a neurochemical consequence.  

Research has found a chemical link between our emotions, the stress in our lives and the immune system.

We all know it’s important to express our emotions, but we don’t always do it. We shove them down, gunny sack them, avoid them, distract ourselves from feeling. When strong emotions such as fear, anger, or rage are not expressed in a healthy way. Then the body’s natural response is to produce an excess of epinephrine.  Storing these stressful emotions produce a chemical breakdown, resulting in a weakening immune system and an increase for disease.

I had to learn this the hard way. When I had cancer I wanted to know why I got it. The doctors said, “Oh it’s just something that happens.” I disagreed. I felt there was a cause. What I learned was the anger and resentment I shoved down started eating away at my body causing a disease called cancer.

This is why it is so important to clean up old emotions that are no longer serving you. Not only is it helping you, but it cleans up your ancestor’s lineage and the future lineage. Another thing I came to learn and understand is that when you die your soul leaves the body, but so does your aura. This is where all your emotions and experiences are stored. If you belief in life after death. Those emotions and experiences follow you forward.

We can safely say that our thoughts, words, emotions and the physical body are all linked together. A belief system is strong enough to send a message to the body. In turn, the physical body reacts to the emotional belief system. The key is to change the messages that are sent to the body and to do that we have to change our beliefs and emotions.

The conscious mind can program the subconscious mind for new behavior and habits. This ability is built into us, but we forget that we have it.

Belief work means changing the pattern and the behavior. It gives us the ability to change the belief that goes beyond the subconscious and into the cells of the body. I practiced feeling my anger and breathing through it, which released the stored anger at the cellular level. It took patience and practice. Today I feel calm and peaceful. All the anger and resentment has left my body.

Now if you are having a really hard time with your mind chatter or limiting beliefs. I would love to help you unlock your prosperity from the inside. I’m known as the abundant mindset expert who intuitively clears prosperity blocks. My specialty is shifting the inner game and releasing stuck emotions so that you can attract more money, success, prosperity and happiness in your life.

Just email me at jolen@jolenphilbrook.com and put “mindset” in the subject line and we’ll schedule a time to chat. I would love to hear from you.  

 

Discover A Fun Way To Manifest

I love the idea of thinking of the Universe as a big Xerox machine. It just produces multiple copies of your thoughts. The sad part is the thoughts you think today are the same thoughts you will have tomorrow. The only way to change your life is to change your thoughts. This may sound simple but you have 60,000 thoughts running around in your head a day and maybe more. How do you change your thinking? For most of us we have a thought, which sparks the idea. Then we talk about it with excitement, which gives it added energy. Then we put our idea into action which produces a result.

But it’s not really the thought that needs to be changed. It’s the core belief or the sponsoring thought that started you thinking in a certain way. Isn’t that easier than trying to change all your thoughts?

The easiest way to change a core belief is to start feeling and acting the way you want. Let’s say your core belief is not enough money. You have to start training your brain to see that you do have enough.

In order to feel as though you have enough you have to flip your thoughts and feelings around to enough. It’s about showing your brain there is enough. A good affirmation is I have enough. Then prove it to yourself. Go to your cupboards and look at all the can and packaged food you have. Then say out loud, “I have enough.”  Go to your closet and look at all the clothes and shoes you have and say, “I have enough.”  Go to the bathroom and look at all your make-up and say, “I have enough.”  Look in your wallet and say, “I have enough.”  Here’s a secret, if your wallet is empty go to the bank and get a $100 dollar bill or at least a couple of $20’s. Keep this money in your wallet at all times. If you spend it replace it right away.

Play a game with the money. I have enough to buy this or that, but right now I’m choosing not to. I’m so glad I have enough money today to buy what I want. Open your wallet and tell yourself I have enough and you really do have enough at this moment in time. You are training your mind to know that you do have enough.  You have enough right now to do what you want when you want. You have enough to go to the movies. You have enough to out to lunch. You have enough to buy yourself a treat. But you are choosing differently.

Start noticing how you are feeling when you say, “I have enough.” Practice walking with confidence feeling successful and prosperous. I have a pair of shoes that when I put them on I feel strong and powerful. The days I wear those shoes I get more respect. What can you wear to feel prospers? Is there an outfit that you love, but never wear? Why not start wearing it today and feel good about yourself.

Now as you go about your day watch your language. Listen to yourself talk. Be on the alert for when you say, “I don’t have enough.” It could be not enough time, not enough money, not enough love, and not enough happiness. The list could go on and on. It’s time to break the cycle. Stop the thoughts or words right away and step into your successful self. Act as if you do have enough. How would you feel if you had enough money? How would you talk to yourself and how would you show up differently? These are a few questions to ponder.

Now if you are having a really hard time with your mind chatter or limiting beliefs. I would love to help you unlock your prosperity from the inside.

I’m known as the abundant mindset expert who intuitively clears prosperity blocks. My specialty is shifting the inner game and releasing stuck emotions so that you can attract more money, success, prosperity and happiness in your life.

Just email me at jolen@jolenphilbrook.com and put “mindset” in the subject line. I would love to hear from you. 

 

 

 

Trouble Asking for Help?

I was humming along on Friday. I just finished my third interview for the day when my stomach started to hurt. The next day I had a slight fever and didn’t feel chipper so I laid low living off rice and binge watch romance movies. The next day I felt a little better and drove one hour to meet a friend for lunch and pick up a yard statue of two dolphins jumping out of the water.

Mondays rolls around and I put in a normal work day, which causes me to relapse on Tuesday. A friend said, “If I don’t get better by Thursday I’d better call the doctor.” Well that was enough to put fear into me. Doctors, no way! See I don’t like the doctor’s world after the cancer event. Besides I was just there a few weeks back and all they did was send me home with a few pill. I can heal myself.

I started with down orange-red ray of light to clear and burn away all toxic bugs and virus. I called forth Archangel Raphael and asked for a healing. Then I did Reiki on my stomach and intestines.  I had a bowl of rice and went to bed at 7pm. During the night I woke up dripping wet from the fever. By morning I was well again.

My question is why do we wait to ask for help? It wasn’t until I had a relapse did I do anything about it. Why don’t we ask for help? Why do we suffer unnecessary?

What I learned from the experience is that I’m stubborn. I go through the pain and suffering until I can’t stand it anymore, then I ask for help. What if I ask for help right away? Help is always there for us but for some reason we think we have to do it on own. Where in your life are you being stubborn and not asking for help?

If you are having a really hard time asking for help I’d love to have a conversation with you to see if I can help you. Just email me at jolen@jolenphilbrook.com and put “mindset” in the subject line. I would love to hear from you.  

 

3 Secrets to a Prosperity Mindset

Do you think money is easy to come by or do you think money is hard to get? Do you belief you deserve to have money flowing in from all the things you do or do you only get paid for certain things you do? Do you believe you have to struggle and work hard for your money?

If you are like most people, you have some type of block that keeps money from flowing into your life or business.

Let’s talk about the 3 Secrets to A Prosperity Mindset. While you are going through these 3 secrets, open your heart and be compassionate with yourself. Remember we are just learning and practicing. Ok great, let’s get started…

Secret #1: Is to Identify Your Current Prosperity Mindset.

Your mind has positive ideas about money, prosperity and abundance. You mind also has negative ideas about money, prosperity and abundance.  I am inviting you to think about the negative ideas about money, prosperity and abundance.

A prosperity mindset is how you think and feel about money. Why is this important? It’s important because it’s how you look at prosperity with a certain point of view, values and worth that determine how much wealth, abundance and prosperity you’ll allow yourself to have.

What is a mindset and why is it important? According to dictionary.com Mindset means:  the ideas and attitudes with which a person approaches a situation.

Another way to look at mindset is that it’s a set of beliefs about yourself and your most basic qualities such as your intelligence, your talents and your personality.

Ask Yourself This Questions:

  • If I allow money in, what negative consequences I will have to deal with?
    • Is there a belief that someone will take your money from you?
    • Is there a belief that you will lose it or fail?
    • Will you be judge by your family or not belong.
    • What is your deep hidden concern?

Did you discover that there are some thoughts and feelings that might be stopping your from allow money, prosperity and abundance in? You may want to spend some time to listen to yourself talk about money to uncover what your negative beliefs are.

If the money is not flowing in, there is a part of your mind saying ‘no’ to it. The next step is get your mind to say yes. When you can get the yes inside of you. Then you can hear “yes” out in the world.

Secret #2 Create New Beliefs About Prosperity.
Now I Invite You To Answer These Two Questions:

  • What new belief do I want to have that would make it easy to allow money in?
  • What new belief do I want to have that would make it easy and fun to be a prosperous person?

For me the one I use it that I am open to receive all my good or money flows to me from many income streams. Then, I practice feeling prosperous.

The key is to choose a new beliefs that resonates with you and supports your ability to allow in money and wealth. The next step is to observe your mind and live prosperous, which brings us to…

Secret #3 Reinforce Your New Beliefs.

Your mind is your most powerful piece of success equipment. The key is to pay attention to your language and when you notice you are talking negative about money, switch to something positive right away.

This simple exercise stop, drop and roll helps you shift any negative thoughts or feelings about money or judgments about yourself or anything that you know, is NOT a prosperity mindset.

Say “Stop” (out loud or silently to yourself) that’s the old mindset.  “Drop” (drop that thought immediately). “Switch” (Switch out the new belief) The truth is…” start saying your new beliefs that you wrote in the Secret #2 section and keep focusing on it until you feel good and excited about money and prosperity. By practicing this it will help shift your mindset so that you feel powerful and confident around money and prosperity.

Now if you are having a really hard time with your mind chatter or limiting beliefs. I would love to help you unlock your prosperity from the inside.

I’m known as the abundant mindset expert who intuitively clears prosperity blocks. My specialty is shifting the inner game and releasing stuck emotions so that you can attract more money, success, prosperity and happiness in your life.

Just email me at jolen@jolenphilbrook.com and put “mindset” in the subject line. I would love to hear from you. 

 

Manifesting Your Desires

Did you know your relationship with money reflects more about your thoughts, beliefs and feelings then it does about the world of finances?

How do you think about money? What are some of your beliefs?

Wealth, prosperity and success start first in your thoughts and then it appears in your outer world. Prosperity is more than just money. It’s a way of being.

True prosperity means more than just having an abundance of money. It’s having confidence, harmonious relationship, peace of mind and happiness.

Prosperity is having health, vitality, loving relationships, joyful work that you love and ease in your life. Where you live a happy and stress free life.

If you were living the lifestyle of your dreams what would that look like? I invite you to spend some time journaling on that question after the show.

The word prosperity comes from the Latin root which literally translates as, “according to hope” or “to go forward hopefully.”

Prosperity isn’t something that you acquire. It’s an attitude towards life. It is having a certain way of thinking and living which we will cover on the many upcoming podcast. Be sure to subscribe so you will learn the latest.

 True prosperity is a shift in one’s consciousness. Simply stated its cause and effect. Prosperity is the cause within one’s mind and money is the effect of the shift within ones consciousness. When we learn to think a certain way we automatically attract prosperity.

Let me share with you how this worked in my life.

The 1st time I realized I could shift my consciousness was when I was 16 years old. I was living in San Diego and bathing suit season was just around the corner and I wanted a new bathing suit. I flipped through the latest bathing suit catalog looking for the right suit. I finally found one I loved. I ripped the page out of the catalog and taped it to me bedroom wall. The picture was the last thing I looked at as I drifted off to sleep and the first thing I saw in the morning. Finally the day arrived where I went shopping. I spent all day at the mall, but I couldn’t find a bathing suit I liked.

As I was leaving the mall I saw K-mart across the street. My intuition said, “Go to K-Mart” so I did and I found a beautiful bathing suit. When I got home I laid the bathing suit on my bed and looked at the picture hanging on the wall. It was the same identical bathing suit. I wondered, “How did I do that?” That was the beginning of my manifestation. 

If you want to manifest something special into your life than I invite you to take this action.

Action step

I’m curious, what do you want in your life? Spend some time thinking about your desires. If you were living the lifestyle of your dreams what would that look like? I invite you to spend some time journaling on that question.

Write down all your desires, make a list of them. Then rate what you wrote from 1 to 3. Ones are very important, twos are could happen and threes doesn’t matter.

After you have rated your list look at all the 1 on your list. Now you are going to rerate them from 1 to 3 again to weed out the ones that are not very important. Look at the ones you have left.

Ask yourself which is the most important that if I didn’t do it. I would feel like I wasn’t fulfilling my purpose. That’s the one you want to start working on right away. 

Leave a comment and let me know what you choose to manifest.

 

5 Steps to Turn Worry Around

Worrying about money has been so ingrained in our culture today that it has literally become an epidemic. We are not only worrying over money, we talk about it with our friends. We toss and turn all night thinking about it. We spend our energy thinking about the worst case scenario and all possible negative outcomes of the situation. It’s top of mind. All this worrying has gotten you nowhere, but you can turn this all around by changing the way you think and change what you are doing.

Here are some steps to help you.  

  1. Change Your Focus

When I am super stressed and worrying about my finances I ask myself, “What am I focused on?” Usually I notice I’m really in a negative state of mind, so I ask myself, “Do I want more of this?” Usually the answer is no. See when you are focused on a negative emotion such as worry, you are creating more of what you don’t want into your life.  The key is to notice it and turn it around.

  1. Get a Mantra or Song

The reason you want a mantra or song is to help shift the energy. When you say your mantra or sing your song your energy shift and raises to a higher level. The more positive energy you tell yourself, the more you will believe and embody it. One way to do this is with a mantra, which is a positive sentence you repeat to yourself every time you begin to worry. Mine is “God is my source.” This reminds me that when I align to the energy of abundance it comes to me from many different streams of income. That I’m in control of my life and I’m choosing the experience I’m having in this moment. Do I want the experience to be pleasant full of trust and faith or stress and worry? To remind myself to say my mantra I painted a small palm tree on a sandy beach on a 3 x5 card and post it in my kitchen window.  You could write yours on a 3×5 card with color markers and put it somewhere you’ll see it often, such as your bathroom mirror, in your car or on your computer monitor.

Create a fun song to sing. When I drive I sing my song. You can make something up on the fly or think about your song and write it down so that you remember it. My song goes like this…Thank you for this day Spirit. Thank you for this day. This wonderful day, this wonderful day. Thank you for my clients Spirit. Thank you for my clients. My wonderful clients, my wonderful clients. Thank you Spirit for the opportunities to make money today.  The wonderful opportunities, the wonderful opportunities. Thank you for this day Spirit. Thank you for this day. This wonderful day, this wonderful day.

The key here is to feel good when you sing your song. You could sing it in the shower, in the car or at night when you’re getting ready for bed.  

  1. Go into Gratitude

Gratitude is a higher vibration and it’s harder to focus on the negatives in life, when one is being grateful. One way to do this is to write down five positive things that happened during your day. You’ll want to do this every evening before bed for at least two weeks. In the morning when you wake up write five things that you are grateful. This will help to shift your focus and If you create an awareness of what you’re thankful for. When you have an attitude of gratitude you will naturally be more positive and can better tackle any problem with easy.

  1. Know Where You Stand

Set aside some time weekly to check your bank account and discuss your finances with your partner. Then, you don’t have to worry the rest of the week, because you know where you stand and you have deal with things.

If you don’t already one now is a good time to create a budget. A budget can serve as a real eye-opener to what you are spending your money on and it will afford you greater control over your spending habits. It will also help with the fear-of-the-unknown by giving you a firm grasp on your financial situation rather than wondering.

I taught this system to my son who is living on his own going to college and he has taught the same method to his friends. For one month or two you want to track everything you spend. First, whenever you spend money get a receipt. Second, put all your receipts in a certain spot or bowl. Third, once a week enter all your receipts onto a spread sheet.  The categories are groceries, gas, restaurant, clothes and your big bills like PG&E, mortgage or rent, internet, tv, phone. If you have bills you pay every six months or yearly you will want to take that bill and divide it by the months so you’ll know how much to save for that bill, such as DMV, insurance, taxes. By doing this you now know exactly how much you need every month to pay your bills.

  1. Build An Emergency Fund

Did you know that most people do not have a thousand dollars in their savings account? This emergency fund is in case anything unexpected happens, like having to replace your water heater. One way you can start this emergency fund is by paying the minimum on your credit cards for a few months. Another way is to cut out the luxury items. The things you don’t really need, like the morning coffee at Starbuck or the restaurants at lunch. Instead you could make your own coffee and lunch. Make it a game to see how much you can save in a month.   

Inclusion, worrying is a bad habit that can be difficult to break. You may have learned to worry from your parents or to stay on top of your finances. It could be as simply as you didn’t know where all your money is goes. Now if you follow the steps above you’ll become a non-worrier with a happier attitude about life. 

You’ll be able to look at your life with ease, happiness and envision what it would be like to live without the worry. Get motivated and use the tips above to see what you can change.

Are you stressed, worried or full of anxiety about your finances?  I know how you feel. I’ve been there with my mind is racing and I can’t turn it off, waking up in panic attacks. That’s why I wrote 101 Affirmations for Prosperity ebook and you can get it here for FREE today! https://jolenphilbrook.com/101-affirmations

3 Steps for Success

There is no simple solution to being successful, but there are some simple things that you can regularly do to achieve success in all areas of your life. Here are three simple steps that you can begin applying today to be successful.

The first step is to be clear about your goals and desires. You can’t be indecisive about what you want. You can’t keep changing your mind all the time and then wonder why you never achieve your goals. You have to be very clear.

You may be wondering why this is so important. When you’re clear about your goals and desires you give your mind a very clear set of instructions to follow. If you continually change your mind your subconscious cannot create what you want because it gets confused. Just as your subconscious mind gets started on one goal, you change your focus and you want something else.

Then your subconscious has to start all over again to achieve your new goal, because you changed your mind. If you change your mind again and again and again, guess what? Your subconscious has to start all over again and again. And the cycle continues as you keep changing your mind. Then you wonder why nothing ever happens in your life.

Your subconscious cannot attract the right people, situations and circumstances if you continually change your mind about what you want, because you’re not giving it enough time to do what you want it to do. Your subconscious mind will only create more and more confusion for you, if you remain uncertain about what you want.

People who cannot make up their minds or are indecisive rarely, if ever, achieve success, because their subconscious mind does not have a clear instruction and it is not given the right amount of time to guide them to success, because they keep changing their minds.

Getting clear about your goals is so important that it’s the first step. If you’re not sure what you want take some time to think about what is most important to you. Then think about what will have the greatest positive impact on your life. Start with those two questions and give yourself some time to answer them.

The second step is to stay committed to your goals. Don’t change your mind. This is how you get your subconscious mind working for you. When you’re clear and committed to your goals you give your subconscious the time it needs to help you achieve your goals. Start training your mind to help you achieve your goals.

Life is full of ups and down. Once you have made up your mind to what it is that you want take action on it every day. If you run into a bump along the way remind yourself why you what your desire.

Take a moment and think about a cargo ship crossing the ocean. This ship is clear on its destination. In China they load the ship full of cargo to be delivered in the San Francisco area. The ship sets off for its destination on course and as the ship starts to cross the ocean it wonders off course. The captain course corrects as he is committed to getting the ship to Northern California. This course correction happens many times until the ship reaches its destination. The same could be true with you and your desire. You start off all excited about your goal. Then you hit a few rough patches. You have to course correct and stay committed to your desired goal until you reach the finish line.

The last step requires that you keep an open mind. Be open to any and all possibilities. Learn as much as you can about what you want to achieve. Take a look at others who have had success and see what they have done that you could do. Don’t think that you have to know everything or that there is only one way to achieve your goals. You may find a new way to achieve your goal that would be very fulfilling.

When you’re open to all possibilities you empower your subconscious mind by letting it guide you to the choice or the option that is best for you and most fulfilling.

If you are not open to possibilities, then you limit your mind. You don’t allow it to help you achieve your goals in the quickest, safest and most beneficial way for you. Give your subconscious mind a chance to guide you and explore all possibilities.

This means that sometimes the decision that you want to make may not be the best decision. Take a moment to consider all options and focus on making the right decisions. When you focus on making the right choices and the right decisions you basically instruct your subconscious mind to guide you and help you make the right decision.

If you are always afraid that you will make the wrong decision, then you’ll likely make a choice that you are not happy with. We all face tough decisions every day, but if you focus on making the right decisions you will. Because when you focus on making the right choice you are instructing your subconscious mind to guide you and to help you make the right choice.

Look at all of the options, and focus on making the right choices. Don’t rush a decision, instead give your mind a chance to guide you to the right choice. Remember, get clear about your goals and decide what you want. Be open to any and all possibilities as you never know how you may achieve your goal or what might work for you. Make the right decisions by getting your mind to help you make the right choices so that you live the life you want.

You can achieve your goals. You can live the life you want. Get clear on your goals. Be open to all possibilities and allow yourself to make better decisions.

Why it’s Important to Stop Worrying about Money

“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.”
                                                                 ―Lao Tzu

I like this quote because it reminds us that life is full of change and it’s our reaction to the change that creates our stress.

I am curious, Are You Blocking Your Money?

When we worry over our finances we are separating ourselves from our Divine Source. People are an avenue, which your income comes from. They are not your source. Money is an energy that you call forth to you or repel according to your thoughts and emotions. Worry repels money, appreciation and gratitude call it forth.

Worrying about money has been so ingrained in our culture today that it has literally become an epidemic. If we are not worrying over money and talking about it with our friends, then they may feel that something is wrong with us.

I don’t like how I feel when I worry about money. My body buzzes from the high stress and anxiety. I wake up exhausted from the lack of sleep. I’ve learned that worrying not only effects my health but my quality of life. It seems I’m not as present when I’m around others. My mind is focused on my worries and I miss out on the fun I could be having with my friends. As I go through this list see if you have any of these habits.

First, worry waste time, energy and keeps you from enjoying the moment.

You spend your time thinking about all possible negative outcomes of your situation. When you are spending your time in your head, you have less time to think about positive or productive things. You have a difficult time being in the moment and enjoying what’s going on around you.  Worrying accomplishes nothing except stress you out more. Worrying doesn’t let you enjoy the moment or activities with others and it uses up a lot of energy.

Second, worry it keeps you up at night.

There is nothing worse than having a long, tiring day and then not being about to fall asleep because your mind keeps worrying over your finances, which leaves you feeling helpless and hopeless. In this state of mind a new solution can’t appear. Then in the morning you feel sluggish and tired because you didn’t get a good night’s rest. Now you are short tempered and any little thing sets you off which cause a strain on your relationships. People are finding you difficult to be around and your fun factor has gone out the window. 

Third, all this worry is bad for your health

On top of lack of sleep you are now finding that you are getting headaches more or have tight muscle. Maybe your stomach is acting up and you have constant heartburn or your heart is beating faster. You feel that you may need to unwind from all the stress so you make smoke or drink more in an attempt to calm you nerves. Maybe you overeat sugar or fried food or under-eat as a way to escape your money issues.

You Can Turn This Around

All this worrying has gotten you nowhere, but you can turn this all around by changing the way you think and change what you are doing. When I am super stressed and worrying about my finances I ask myself, “What am I focused on?” Usually I notice I’m really in a negative state of mind, so I ask myself, “Do I want more of this?” Usually the answer is no. Then I move into a more positive state of mind by chanting an affirmation.

Here’s an Affirmation for today to help you stop worrying about money:

Divine Source is supporting me today in every area of my life, including my finances. I am now creating and manifesting miracles in my life. I am grateful for the opportunities that are now appearing.